Episode 10: Writing in Your Voice: Your Greatest Advantage in the Age of AI

May 19, 202616 min read
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Episode Summary

AI can produce well-structured, grammatically correct writing on almost any topic. But there is one thing it cannot do: manufacture expertise. And the more AI-generated content floods every platform, the more the experts who write from a genuine, hard-won perspective stand apart.

In Episode 10 of the Author-ized™ Podcast, Ada tackles the question every content creator is quietly wrestling with: if AI tools were trained on how humans write, are we now absorbing AI patterns without realizing it? The answer, she argues, is that your voice is the one thing that protects your writing from becoming forgettable in a world of technically correct, completely interchangeable content.

The episode opens with a leadership consultant whose book draft had been stripped of every quality her clients trusted her for — the warmth, the candor, the specific analogies they quoted back to her years later. The draft was polished and professional. It was also completely unrecognizable as hers. When they rewrote the chapters in her actual voice, one of her executive clients told her after reading it: "I could hear you speak while I was reading."

From that story, Ada breaks down the three elements of writing voice — point of view, story, and language — explaining how each one works, why each is impossible for AI to replicate, and why most experts unconsciously strip all three out of their writing in an attempt to sound like a book. The episode closes with five practical practices for protecting your voice in the writing process, including a particularly counterintuitive one: noticing what you self-edit out — and asking whether you are editing for clarity or for safety.


Key Takeaways

  • AI writing feels polished but empty because it is not any one person's thinking — it is an average of many people's thinking, optimized for coherence and smoothed across countless voices.

  • AI cannot manufacture expertise. The understanding that comes from actually doing the work, making mistakes, and arriving at hard-won conclusions cannot be generated. It can only be earned.

  • Voice is made up of three elements: point of view (the lens from which you see), story (the specific experiences that shaped your thinking), and language (the vocabulary and phrases you have developed — often without realizing it).

  • Hedging and qualifying your opinions does not reassure readers. It makes them uncertain. A clear, committed position gives the reader something to hold onto — and that is what builds trust.

  • Your story is structurally impossible for AI to replicate. It did not happen to anyone else, in the same sequence, with the same people, producing the same specific understanding.

  • Most experts do not realize they have developed a language around their work. It surfaces in the phrases clients quote back to them, the names they give to solutions, the analogies they consistently reach for.

  • The most dangerous editing is not the professional edit — it is the self-editing that happens in real time, when you replace something honest with something safer.


Reflection Questions

  1. Think about the last piece of writing you did when you were not trying to impress anyone — an email, a DM, a quick caption. How does it sound compared to the last thing you wrote intending it to be part of your book?

  2. What position do you hold about your area of expertise that you would state directly in a client conversation but soften or qualify in writing?

  3. What specific story — not a career summary, but a single significant moment — most shaped how you think about the problem you solve?

  4. What phrases do your clients quote back to you? What do colleagues say you "always say"? Do those phrases appear in your writing?

  5. When you self-edit your drafts, are you removing things for clarity — or for safety?


Prefer to read? The full transcript is below.

Welcome to Authorized, the podcast for experts ready to build authority and thought leadership with their own nonfiction book. I'm your host, Ada Cuaresma. If you're a coach, consultant, or service-based expert looking to build authority in your niche or carrying a book idea but not sure where to begin, well my friend, you're in the right place.

Here we talk about structure, clarity, and authoring the right book so your work can reach more people and make a bigger impact in the process. Enjoy the show and let's get you authorized.

Introduction

Artificial intelligence. Yes, we are talking about it.

Because real talk, the AI tools available today have made it possible for anyone to become a writer and a content creator. Anyone can produce a blog post, a newsletter, an article, even videos, images, and songs. All in just minutes, with a few prompts and clicks.

It's also interesting to watch how the conversations about AI have evolved.

A few years ago, I remember people showing off their AI knowledge by sharing prompts for getting the best results. But now, people are showing off their AI knowledge by sharing telltale signs of AI writing.

And I've honestly read too many of those posts myself that I started becoming conscious about whether what I wrote sounded like me or sounded like a bot. Was it too polished? Too structured? Too safe?

But here's one thing that I think we may have forgotten. The content AI produces did not come from a vacuum. These tools were trained on enormous amounts of human-written text, which means they learned to write by studying us, humans.

Our patterns, our structures, our way of introducing, explaining, and concluding ideas – all learned across thousands upon thousands of human-written work.

So basically, the content that AI produces is not any one person's thinking, but rather an average of many people's thinking. And then optimized for coherence, smoothed out across countless voices, and reflecting how ideas are typically expressed rather than how one specific person does.

Which is why AI writing often feels polished but somehow empty. It feels uncommitted and forgettable. I mean, yes, it covered the topic, it satisfied the prompt, but it did not take a position or challenge an idea. AI content wouldn't sound like someone who had actually lived through something and arrived at a hard-won conclusion.

So while AI can produce well-structured, grammatically correct, and reasonably coherent writing on almost any topic – and while it can be useful for certain tasks like organizing information, drafting outlines, or cleaning up transcripts – there's one thing that it cannot do, no matter how sophisticated the model or how detailed the prompt.

It cannot manufacture expertise for you.

Which is why in this episode, I want to talk about the one thing that protects your writing and your book from becoming forgettable in a world full of content that is technically correct and completely interchangeable.

And that is your voice.

The Expert Who Disappeared

One of my clients was a leadership consultant with over a decade of experience guiding organizations through major changes and transitions. She has a solid framework and deep knowledge. Her clients love working with her and they're loyal to her. They keep hiring her for projects and some clients have even sent over referrals to her. The way she cares for her clients created a kind of trust that was hard to find in other consultants.

When she wrote her book, she decided it needed to be serious. After all, senior executives and business owners are her target readers. She thought that the book needed to be serious in order for it to be credible.

So in her writing, she stripped away her warmth, her candor, and her sharp metaphors that her clients quote back to her years after their engagement ended. To put it bluntly, her draft read like a well-researched white paper that could be mistaken for another author.

The ideas, the framework, and the decades' worth of insights were present. But the person who built it all, the one deeply trusted by her clients, was nowhere in the pages.

So after reading her draft, I asked her about the feedback she often gets from her clients after the engagement. How do they describe the experience of being in the room with her? What phrases and stories do they remember? And what do they appreciate most about her interaction with them?

I wasn't surprised at all that she was able to give me specific answers to those questions. But when I asked her why those weren't in the book, she said, “I didn't think that's how my book should sound like.”

And that belief – that a book has to sound formal, distanced, and generic in order to be taken seriously – is one of the most common and most damaging things that an expert could ever bring into the writing process.

And it is also, by default, what AI-generated writing sounds like. Serious, structured, polished, and completely interchangeable with the next book on the same shelf.

So we rewrote those chapters. Same ideas, same framework, same decade of expertise behind every page. But this time, we wrote in her voice. Her warmth, her candor, her specific way of seeing the problem that her clients have been paying for all along.

When her book came out, she gave copies to her loyal clients. One of the executives told her, “You know, I could hear you speak while I was reading.”

My client thanked me for putting her voice in her book.

3 Elements of Voice

So what does it mean to write a book in your voice? There are three elements that are at play.

The first element is your point of view. Your point of view is not what you know, but it's the lens from which you see. That means two experts can have the same credentials, same years of experience, and same general subject matter, but still write completely different books because they're writing from two different points of view.

And just like my client, I see some experts hold back their point of view when writing their book, hedging opinions or claims that they would say directly in client conversations. The writing becomes technically accurate but strangely uncommitted. Present on the page, but not standing for anything.

You have to remember that your point of view is your differentiator. When readers pick up your book, they're not looking for a balanced overview. They are looking for your perspective, your specific position that you have earned through your expertise.

So say what you actually think and commit to the claims that your experience gives you the right to make. Because when a reader encounters writing that softens or waters down every position, they don't feel reassured. If the author is not committed to their own perspective, then why should the reader commit to following it?

On the flip side, when an author takes a clear position, when your writing says, “here's what I believe and I'm willing to stand behind it,” the reader gets something that they can agree with, push back, or be changed by.

That's how you build connection with your reader. The readers of your book don't need you to be right about everything. They just need you to be honest about what you actually think. That honesty becomes the foundation of the trust that your book could build.

The second element of your voice is your story. Your story is the accumulation of specific experiences that shaped your point of view.

And when I say story, I'm not talking about your autobiography or a summary of your career. I'm talking about specific, significant moments. Like the conversation that changed how you understood a problem, or a failure that taught you a hard-earned lesson, or that serendipitous pivot that brought you to where you are today.

Your story is what makes your writing unique and irreplaceable. It immediately tells the reader that they won't hear this anywhere else, and that builds their connection with you.

And ironically, the more specific the story, the more people will resonate with it.

Your story is what makes you stand out in the age of AI. AI can produce a plausible story, but it cannot produce your story. Because your story did not happen to anyone else, in the same sequence, with the same people, producing the same specific understanding.

It's the one thing in your writing that's virtually impossible to replicate, because your story belongs entirely to you.

And the third element of your voice is your language. Now compared to your point of view and story, this one is more subtle because most experts don't realize that they've actually developed a language around their work.

When I say language, I'm talking about the specific vocabulary, phrases, and rhythms that are unmistakably yours.

Over the course of your career, you have coined words and phrases that are specific to how you work. You've given names to the solutions that you provide. You have examples and metaphors that you consistently use to explain concepts to your clients. And there are insights that are recognizably yours to anyone who has spent enough time with your work.

Your language are the things that you would preface with “I call it” or “I always say,” or the things that clients or colleagues would quote back to you.

Your language gets developed through repetition, through feedback, and through the particular way that your mind reaches for meaning.

Your book needs your language in it.

Unfortunately, it could get easily lost in the editing process because editing leans towards conventionality and correctness. But once you identify your language, I highly recommend you protect it. When you find yourself replacing a phrase you actually use with a more standard alternative because it seems more serious or professional, please stop. The phrase you actually use is almost always more powerful because it's real and it's yours.

Your point of view, story, and language. Together, they make up your voice. Something that no prompt, no model, or no amount of generated content can replicate because they came from actual experiences that eventually became your expertise.

How To Protect Your Voice in the Writing Process

Now that you know what makes up your voice when writing your book, here are some best practices that would help you protect your voice.

First, speak before you write. For each section of your book, record yourself explaining it the way that you would to a client. Transcribe it and then write from the transcript, speaking as a more natural method of communication so that will extract more of your voice.

Second, write to one specific person. Because when the audience is abstract, the writing becomes abstract. But when you write to someone specific, like a real client or someone you know well who represents the reader that you want to reach, being specific about who you're writing to pulls your voice out of hiding.

Third, read your writing out loud. If a sentence makes you stumble when you read it out loud, it's probably because it's not your voice. Your written voice should flow when spoken. If it doesn't, then you might have to rewrite.

Fourth, keep your first draft raw. Your first draft is where your voice lives, and if you're not careful, the editing can get that stripped away. Make sure that you're editing for clarity and structure. Be protective of the phrases, the rhythms, and the opinions that are undeniably yours. Those are not rough edges for you to smooth out.

And lastly, notice what you edit out and then ask why. When you're editing your draft, pay attention to what you remove.

And I'm not referring to the editing process that happens after you write the manuscript. I'm talking about the self-editing that happens when you correct your own draft. Notice the moments when you type something honest and then try to soften it after. Or the instinct to replace a phrase that feels too personal with one that feels more professional. Or the decision to cut out strong opinions and replace it with a more subtle one.

If you find yourself consistently cutting out honest opinions, personal examples, or unusual phrases, ask yourself whether you are editing for clarity or editing for safety. There's a difference between the two.

Get a Head Start

Here's something that you can do after listening to this episode.

Think about the writing that you do when you're not trying to impress anyone. Maybe an email or a DM where you were just thinking out loud. Or a social media caption that you wrote 5 minutes without second-guessing. Or maybe notes that you jotted down after a session that were never meant to be published.

Find one of those and then read it. Notice what is there. The specific examples, the honest opinions, and the phrases that are unusual but are completely your own. The moment when you sound like a person and not a document.

That right there is your voice. And that is what your book needs more of.

And if you have a book draft or even just the beginnings of it, you can read that one too. And notice, is your voice still there? Or did it disappear somewhere in an attempt to sound credible or serious or professional?

Join the Author-ized™ Accelerator

If you want to learn and explore how to write in your own voice, then the Authorized Accelerator could be for you. The Author-ized™ Accelerator is my group coaching program that guides coaches, consultants, and service-based experts through my proprietary catch method, from the Clarify stage all the way to a completed first draft.

We don't just help you write a book, but we help you write one in your own voice, with your point of view, your story, and your language intact from the first chapter all the way to the last.

And if that's the kind of book that you want to write, visit gogetauthorized.com to learn more.

Conclusion

Writing your book is an act of expression.

Expression of your point of view, your story, and your language, built over years of real work, real failure, and real insight.

That is what makes a book irreplaceable in a world where everything else can be generated by a machine.

And the world needs the version of your book that only you could have written.

Thanks for listening! If this episode resonated, it's because your work deserves authority and the kind of impact that lasts. And if the show helped you in any way, feel free to subscribe, leave a review, or share this with someone who has a book idea but doesn't quite know where to start.

You can connect with me by emailing [email protected]. Framework first, book second, authority that lasts. I'll see you in the next episode.


Join The Author-ized™ Accelerator

The Author-ized™ Accelerator is a group coaching program that guides coaches, consultants, and service-based experts through the CATCH Method™ — from the Clarify stage all the way to a completed first draft. Not just helping you write a book, but helping you write one that sounds like you — with your point of view, your story, and your language intact from the first chapter to the last.

If that is the book you want to write, visit gogetauthorized.com to learn more and get in touch.


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